TECHNOLOGY - A KISS OR A DISS   ??

                  

        All of us know how technology takes part in our daily lifestyle.

        

        We actually don't care even though it affects us badly.

        Technology is changing everyday with time. Even we are changing everyday; we are getting the latest gadgets and updating our mobiles to the latest software available.

         That's how technology deeply incorporated in our lifestyle.

         As we always care about only pro's right in the beginning.

Let's see how it actually benefited few lives.

         I have an incident how technology actually changed a woman's life.

          I want to share it with you;

         -> I was shopping a few necessities on a fine weekend. And finally landed near the food point in Udupi's Big Bazaar.

             There I found a woman who was extremely happy in spending her own money.

             At that moment I was playing with her child. Later i interacted with her and asked that why was she so happy.

             At first time she gave an awkward glance when i asked her, but later she proceeded on her story.

            Her name is ''Neelavathi''.

                  She is from Mangalore, married and has two children. One of them is a girl who is in 8th grade and a boy who is in 3rd grade. She studied B.A. and was immediately married which was not under her wish.

            She always wanted to earn money for her expenses as her husband wasn't pleased to drop money in her hand.

                  And her husband didn't allow her to work. He always wished her to be with children and look after the household work.

            When her son was in kindergarten, she attended computer learning classes and acquired some basic knowledge about computers.

            After completion of her learning classes, she asked her husband's permission to work and she also explained him that it would improve their family financial background, but her husband denied it.

            Finally she got to know about *WORK FROM HOME*, through her neighbor which has sown a seed in her mind.

            Fortunately she had a desktop in home which was brought by her husband for the need of their daughter. Then she started working from home when her kids were off to school.

            Now she is finally happy because her husband also agreed to it.

            Now she earns money on her own. This brought happiness into her little world.

            True happiness of a person depends on the way they live , with the new improving methods of lifestyle and increasing opportunities  to earn money, lives of many people can change with the turn of a coin called life.

                     The woman is happy in a philosophical way, it makes her so happy because she is proud of herself working and earning money. 

               

                                " IN THIS WAY , TECHNOLOGY TRANSFORMED  A LIFE OF A WOMAN INTO A  HAPPY BLOOM   FROM  SORROWFUL MESS"

              

                Now let's see the dissing part of it.
          
                How it actually messed up the life of a hardworking gentlemen named ''Gopal'', which made him realize a way later to know how it destroyed him and made him out of order.
                 
                He studied a lot about technology but unfortunately his education couldn't teach him how it affects his mental and physical health.
   
                He is a professional software based engineer in Cisco systems abroad. He is working in this profession for more than 9 years now. It took him nine years to know how it depleted his muscles and nerves. His wife and children stay in udupi. Woman resides in udupi with her parents as her husband stays far away.
                
               
                His wife was quite happy when he was working abroad and earning loads of money. But now when a problem is faced, she started panicking.

                As he was doing a lot of work in order to earn money, this made him spent more money and made him to take a break from his work.
                
                He is facing a carpal tunnel syndrome which is actually a lifestyle disorder which is generally faced when the wrist and fingers are stressed a lot, especially during typing and continuous working with fingers.
               
                The doctors suggested to take a break from his work and advised him to take treatment. 

               Now the gentleman is worried a lot about the money which is he going to miss all through his break from work.

               I've met this gentleman and woman when this woman's mother is admitted in the hospital. The lady's mother bed was near to my friend's hospital bed when he was admitted suffering from abscess.
               
               Now the couple is actually in a worried state, because it made a big pause to their future planning.

               The doctors told him that this was due to continual stress to fingers without getting any exercise to other parts of the body.
              
               So finally they realized how technology slowly eats up the human ability.
               
              The woman now feels that her child should never be in a technological field.

              Technology has made up many drastic changes in human life which made them gain and a fall off too.It is even responsible for several psychological disorders by which, the children are also affected.


              ''THIS IS HOW TECHNOLOGY HAS BOTH THE GAIN AND BACKDROPS, SO WE HUMAN SHOULD LIMIT OUR USE TO AN EXTENT. BY THE TIME YOU REALIZE, U HAVE NOTHING IN YOUR HAND TO RESTORE.''



              Please do respond and react about how technology is affecting. Please convey your opinions.
                                           
                                                                              THANK  YOU...!!!

               

              

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